What is the bottom line that an affair woman can tolerate
Everything outside the marriage of men, love and body, love and organs, the boundaries between them may be clear.
Under various objective reasons of “involuntaryness”, some women sighed and accepted, some women repeatedly weighed and hesitated, while some women chose to declare loudly that they did not agree.
So, will you accept it?
There is a saying circulating on the rivers and lakes, “Extramarital affairs is a popular lie.
Those who can and cannot afford to play do not need to take it seriously.
“Extramarital affairs and extramarital sex are nothing new.
Every third time, a friend will tell you this or that extramarital story.
It is always the man who is in trouble, the woman who is always injured, and the plot is always the same.
Recently, some scholars have analyzed the divorce caused by extramarital affairs and third-party involvement in Shanghai.
The results showed that more than 60% of the plaintiffs were women, and 51% of men who had divorced due to extramarital affairs had premarital sex.
Sex, in the context of an irreversible society, the Yellow Lady Army blooms everywhere.
The “entertainment” of men’s mouths turned into a shield for their dignified body betrayal.
Faced with such extramarital sex, women who look forward to the success of their husbands are helpless.
Love is the foundation of the original family and the important factor of long-term harmony and harmony. However, human instincts like the new and hate the old, so that the most advanced science and technology must also recognize it in an official manner: feelings will never marry the marriage ceremony once and for all.
For this family, for the children, I am more accustomed to retaining the man we once loved and swore together.
Women lowered the bottom line they could tolerate again and again.
So the judgment question becomes a multiple choice question: more and more questions focus on physical derailment and emotional derailment, which is the bottom line?
From 20 to 50, four married women of different ages, here to tell you their choices.
It is a fact that women accept extramarital sex. If we must choose between the two, I think extramarital affairs are even more unacceptable.
Because accepting extramarital sex, I think this is the reality that women have to accept.
Because of doing business, he often entertained outside, and every time he went to the concert hall, he looked for the same lady.
He said he didn’t like her, he just played at the scene.
But he was getting too much.
Once our baby was having a fever, and I was the only one in the family, but he went to the karaoke hall until four or five, and then went to supper before dawn came back.
This situation continued until the “July 7” of that year, Chinese Valentine’s Day.
I couldn’t bear it, let him come back early, but he came back at two o’clock in the night, said hello, and went out for supper again until four or five.
I saw that there were dozens of text messages of that lady on his mobile phone. He quibblely said that the woman was sending it, and he didn’t reply. He was forced to ask. There was no other way.The connection was broken, otherwise she would go around.
Later, my husband’s sister advised me to look after my man, saying that he was fascinated by the woman and would give her something.
I called to question him. He had a hard mouth and was fierce to me.
I really regretted marrying him at the time.
Later he and the lady still broke.
I also know that he won’t really replace me with that woman.
We have a common home and children, and he still loves me very much, every time he will come back and talk sweetly.
But who else is in the business field, who knows, which one is next?
Occasional derailment can be forgiven for things like men, first of all an animal.
Since it’s an animal, he can’t resist the temptation of a beautiful girl who is still shy and smiles at me.
So if I love this man, I will forgive his raw impulse.
Of course I mean by accident. If a man is obsessed with a woman and often goes to bed with her, I would not believe it even if he said that he was obsessed with only her body.
Being obsessed with the body is also a kind of love, which has feelings, and it is unacceptable to be emotionally derailed.
My husband and I are not too restrained by each other, because we have the same views on extramarital sex, so once there is an episode, they will be hidden well.
After all, if you let the other party know, you still feel a little uncomfortable.
We also rarely suspect and probe each other too much. I once saw pictures of him and another girl. They are known to be close, but I know they are friends who have known each other for a long time, so they are much lazy and want to ask more.
In fact, this is like people eating. His wife is like rice, but bland but essential. A man may need some other flavors to adjust his mood and find a little freshness, but he will never give up rice.
Man’s nature must not be condoned. Someone told me at the beginning that my husband would take other women home and would make all sorts of love while traveling on business. I would shut up the gossip.
I never ask my husband if those rumors are true, I just do my wife’s duty as always.
My husband and I are both Uighurs. In our nation, men will never do housework, and it is the responsibility of a woman to take care of everything outside the house.
We were together for 13 years, and in the 11th year, he went abroad to work.
Although all insiders have confirmed to me that he has another woman, he still keeps his teeth shut.
He quibble argued that his wife had not been around for a long time, and he just asked a woman to help him do the laundry and cook.
I know he is lying, but I choose to be silent.
I do n’t want to talk about a woman who is suspicious, and I do n’t want him to think that I do n’t understand him. I ‘m a woman without measurement, and I do n’t want to be troubled by the city. I would rather look for problems from myself, and more importantly, stillConsider how our daughter feels.
And I swallowed and pretended to be dumb in return, that is, he transformed extramarital sex into extramarital affairs, and then carried out extramarital affairs to the end.
Throughout, he never admitted to me that there was another woman.
Until one day, the woman appeared in front of someone with a big belly, and the reality of her six-month pregnancy made it impossible for anyone to keep silent and continue pretending to be calm.
So my husband became my ex-husband.
All the reasons for an affair are excuses. For those of us born in the 1950s, extramarital affairs and extramarital sex are equally unacceptable.
It can be conservative or principled. In short, my husband and I have never betrayed each other, whether physically or mentally.
My husband and I have been married for 24 years. At that time, we were all in love for the first time. Even now we are still very good.
I think when a man loves a woman with admiration from beginning to end, his heart cannot fall aside.
For the views of extramarital affairs and extramarital sex, we once sat together and paid careful attention, and we could not accept each other’s derailment, whether physical or purely emotional.
We all think that infidelity in marriage is the difference between love and dislike, but a matter of character.
You have deceived your closest person in the world, betrayed this person who is cuddling with you and will go through life.
What else can you trust?
If there is a betrayal, the end can only be a divorce.
As adults, we should always know what we want in a marriage and what we should do?
If a man doesn’t even know this, then he is too immature. If he knows why he committed it, it is a bad personality.
Whether it’s extramarital affairs or extramarital sex, it’s not worth the risk to the one you love, it’s too expensive.
Love and sex are not a free lunch. Psychologists say that men, no matter how old, hide a child deep inside, a wayward child.
So they will face the temptation to weigh their hands, find excuses for what they want and should not, and face pampering again and again.
When he tells you that he and the woman are just playing in the field, and I hope you don’t be so careful, it is tantamount to erecting the image of the main house of the old society in front of you alive, even if you endure it, it is full of grievances, right?
When he justified that he only had a pure affection for her, but no skin blind date, your direct association was a noble Plato love, or a dog and a man with good looks?
Fewer and fewer people mention the word “loyalty”.
These two words, which are crucial in the wedding oath, are gradually piled up and replaced by the various excuses that men look for for themselves.
Can the heart be disloyal?
Or can the body be disloyal?
Before the minefield danger line that destroyed the marriage, the man would have been a categorical rejection, and twisted a tentative step forward.
Rachel in “The Six” said to Rose, who had a one-night stand: One is a cheater, always a cheater (once a thief, a thief for life), and when we encounter real dilemmas in life, what we hearMost of the seemingly intimate persuasions are that women have to endure a moment of calm, to change the calm, to open one eye, and to close one eye at the same time, they must focus on the family and children. But few people will tell you directly: Give up this man, he is not worth forgiving, and stop deceiving himself, he will not repent because of your tolerance.
But if we can work hard to shop around for a skirt, then what reason can we let the quality of our emotions go back and forth without asking?
Don’t believe those lies from the erring child, who can completely separate their body and heart without a trace of implication, who can guarantee that men’s so-called “next example” can really be replaced.
The vow must not be scattered with the wind and fog. Tolerance towards him is also a renunciation of the quality of feelings.
Men are not grateful for this, and you can only verify your weakness and compromise.